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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Thanks for asking about me. I M still here. I’m working to extricate myself from this ... this week. It’s a long story but i didn’t even have my own car. I had rough credit from my divorce and he didn’t want to pay extra interest (at the time he was in control of all of my income and all...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Well no, but sort of. He would often block my exit of the house when I would try to leave during a fight. Once during a fight he tried to get the bag out of my hand. He yanked it and it broke my fingers. I did have to have surgery. That was over 2 years ago. And no he hasn’t been physically...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    My wires sometimes get crossed because I do understand a bit of his frustration. He is trying to help me and not receiving the “payment” he wants for it. I get that part. But, He hasn’t quit his job (like i did). He didn’t come up with the idea and he was VERY clear he would not invest or put...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Thanks so much for everyone who has posted today. Sorry I missed these and I appreciate each and every response. I have thought long and hard as one of the earlier posters said....about the excuses I make for him. I make a million excuses. And it's true the fear of the unknown seems to be...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    One of the things that Kung Fu steve mentioned is that no one can do this for me and I have to find my own internal motivation. I spent a lot of today going through videos from people who have 'been there and done that'. Here's what is confusing to me. In some cases...he is so kind and so...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    I understand. And I think testimonial was wrong word. I should have sans case study. But, yes I get your point loud and clear. And no he clearly doesn’t care about my testimonial. You are right. My apology.
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Yes you are absolutely right. He did help me for free and I am grateful and would happily be a testimonial just based on that. The thing that may be misconstrued though is I was not trying to say he would be “so lucky to get my testimonial” That’s not why i said that. My point was that I...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Actually, you could help me make a shift. I did ask you for a referral for a private coach...since you declined. That's because I don't think a big group mastermind will help me accomplish what I need to accomplish. I clearly need direct help. Please let me know if you can reconsider. I...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    I think you could help me a lot... I'm new to this forum and I don't see a way to direct message you. Please let me know the best way to work with you. Someone here said you are a coach. Thanks..
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    So well said, 'Kung Fu Steve'....now I know why people kept telling me to consult you. This really doesn't pertain to the business part -- but through therapy and reflection now -- I know what drew him to me. He loved that a big tv anchor was all over him. He posted pictures all over social...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Thank you! I don't know anything about Kung Fu Steve, but sounds like I need to. How do I reach him or try to find his forum? unfortunately I'm new here and didn't see a way to click on his site. Thanks
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    I AM a golddigger? Really? Because I pursued my own business and tried to hang on to it? How does that make me a gold digger? BTW I left my career when he proposed and told me he would "take care of me"...which really meant he would NOT. I can take a lot of accusations but GOLD DIGGER is...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    I am legit and I think my therapist would agree with you. She keeps asking WHY I don't feel the pain of the emotional abuse I am absorbing. And WHY I don't just leave. I think at the core I'm not capable of much...including this business. Is that my fault/issue? yes...has he had any...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    That's true. I just look back at all the photos of vacations we had and ski trips where I imagined that we would have this life forever. I know this is relationship territory -- but I had asked him over the past year when we would be married. He said by the end of 2017. That came and went...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    He is defenseless here. But, I was seeking objective opinions and request or how much I should allow him into my business and investor meetings. I am not bashing him. I am telling the truth. And also getting some negative here because I have defended some of his behavior to make sure I was...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Definitely not a troll. I wish I could say this wasn’t the truth. It is my reality. I apparently sound insane to take this ....considering the response here. But I appreciate the insight and objective advice. When you don’t have any friends left...and you are constantly surrounded by this...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    Yes i see what you are saying. I do love him but not the way i used to. It’s true. I am angry and resentful. I think i keep imagining that some how some day we will be okay. The problem with letting go...is that I respect him and his surgical skills. I see him as a very smart man and I...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    I dont agree here. You have to understand I was asking him to go into business with me...launch it with me...it would be "our business". He would co-sign for a line of credit and we would do this together. His response was that I will fail. That he won't EVER be my bitch or sell anything FOR...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    To answer the questions here, yes there was a formation lawyer and a C-Corp. When he told me he wouldn't' help me financially....I started to search for a loan. I didn't get far. But, I did stumble upon the investor/developer I mentioned. He gave me a small amount as a convertible note. He...
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    Fiance is calling my business "his/our" business, threatening to sue me

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    No….he is difficult all the way around. but he’s a very good looking…surgeon. He’s been married twice before…left his first wife while she was pregnant with their third child (for the neighbor)…. I didn’t know this until I was already engaged and living with him. But he grabs womens’...
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