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    Responsiblity and Accountability chapter

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    Thank you so much for your detailed explanation. I appreciate you so much. This helped things clear up in my mind alot and I understand alot better. I spoke about this with someone else as well and they said I cannot responsible for their actions, but I am responsible for my own. Thank you...
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    Responsiblity and Accountability chapter

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    Thank you for your comment. This makes a lot of sense.
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    I keep bringing it up because I feel like these events are slightly different. Or else you would go insane with paranoia trying to figure out what caused it and preventing it!! How can you say because I did xyz, event A happened? When there were many factors into play, including many things...
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    Responsiblity and Accountability chapter

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    I think I get what you're saying: Dont dwell... so don't get stuck on the bad things since you can change your actions so there is less of a chance it happening.. right? And I am specifically asking about really bad events. Imo, not getting a date or working late is not a horrible experience...
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    Responsiblity and Accountability chapter

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    Thank you for your detailed reply. I think I understand a little more. Like having the mindset of, "next time I wont do xyz, because that will help lessen the chances of 'bad event A' happening again'. Yes my question was more geared towards events that are severe in crime or traumatic, then a...
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    Responsiblity and Accountability chapter

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    Thanks for your reply. I completely understand your example. It is very similar to the example with the purse. Of course, if I did that I would say it's my fault too. But if you read my OP again, I'm asking more about traumatic events , more serious big crimes, like sexual and physical assault...
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    Responsiblity and Accountability chapter

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    Hi, I just finished this chapter and I think I understand what he is saying, that you ultimately have control over your own life. But I think I need some help understanding a little more. When he gives the example of his friend who got her purse stolen, and she left her bag wide open again on...
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