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  1. John D.

    Changing Careers Oil & Gas to Dating Coach (Need Advice)

    I have a question for you: What's making you different from the thousands of dating coaches out there using the same worn-out promises everyone's heard before? ('Get a girlfriend in X days', 'Get laid every weekend', 'Become an alpha male', etc.) The dating market is a big market, and you're...
  2. John D.

    Tips on getting serious clients as a Freelancer

    MARKETING 
    The standard freelancing advice is to niche down. People will pay more for a specialist than for a generalist. If that's not feasible for you, try to become the best generalist there is in your sector. Other than that, look into cold emailing potential clients you consider to be ideal to work...
  3. John D.

    Should I Get A Job Or Freelance?

    SIDE HUSTLE 
    To preface this, I personally have never held a real, proper job in my life and I exclusively freelance for a living. (To be honest, the low living costs in my country make this possible, but that's another topic.) I think freelancing is better because it is closer to running a real business...
  4. John D.

    How I hacked my dopamine to train and reward desired work behaviors and halt procrastination

    HOT! MINDSET 
    Thanks for introducing me to this Ted Talk, I feel like it's just what the doctor ordered for me. :)
  5. John D.

    Best single supplment for Anxiety/ADHD/Concentration/Depression

    HEALTH 
    Does Suntheanine produce better effects than 'regular' L-Theanine, or is it a marketing gimmick? Haven't looked into it too much, but I can see it says Suntheanine on my bottle of theanine (I use Jarrow Formulas).
  6. John D.

    Alcoholic housmate needs to go

    PEOPLE 
    +1 for everything said here. I'd say go about this as if you were about to break up with a psychotic girlfriend. Take him out to a public place and give him the 'it's not you, it's me' treatment. Be understanding and consider his perspective when presenting your decision. Most importantly...
  7. John D.

    You copywriters are being replaced by AI..

    HOT! MARKETING 
    Waiting on your next course -- 'How to Use Y.O.U. Focus to Crush Evil Copy Terminators' :)
  8. John D.

    You copywriters are being replaced by AI..

    HOT! MARKETING 
    AI will never learn human empathy -- which is at the core of great copywriting. Sure, it may reach some superficial levels and slap up a bunch of 'power words' to form some basic selling points, but it will never probe into the deeper underlying reasons of why people buy. And hence my...
  9. John D.

    You don't need a website, you need sales

    HOT! MARKETING 
    Great argument. Some people get hung up on the bells and whistles and don't start until they have the perfect website. I'm doing freelance copywriting and I only have a rudimentary Google Doc to show to prospective clients. It looks like something a 9-year-old could've come up with in half an...
  10. John D.

    Unconventional Ways to use Spare Bedroom to make money?

    HOT! 
    Sound-proof the room and do ASMR roleplay videos.
  11. John D.

    Are you struggling to eat vegetables ?

    HEALTH 
    My Patented 80/20 Sloth-Like Person's Guide™ for Consuming Healthy Green Things With Minimal Time Effort (And On The Cheap!) I don't have problem eating vegetables. It's the washing, peeling and cutting part that leaves me stuck to the couch. So I found a solution. It's the lazy man's way...
  12. John D.

    Books for becoming a better storyteller?

    In addition to everything above, my tip is to be more present in your day-to-day life. Pay attention to the situations happening around you. There are stories unfolding around us each and every day - no matter how boring they seem at first. Your job is to tell them in an interesting way. At...
  13. John D.

    Positive affirmation RAHRAH

    MINDSET 
    I believe affirmations only work if you support them with action. If you stand in front of the mirror and say to yourself that you're a productive, 24/7 hustle-till-I-die type of guy, and then go on and lay on the couch all day... your unconsciousness will reject every statement you say to...
  14. John D.

    I will stop playing video games, watch porn, etc for 1 month.

    HOT! MINDSET 
    My tip: Make reading your 'default mode' whenever you feel bored. Connect the feeling of boredom as a trigger to picking up a book. To make this easier buy/download a shitload of books on your tablet/phone and carry it around with you wherever you are. Obviously you also have to vanquish every...
  15. John D.

    Marketing my pressure washing service

    HOT! MARKETING 
    Maybe you create a nice freebie as an incentive. It would work nicely with the other advice given here. For example, a free report/flyer/brochure titled '55 Things You Didn't Know You Can Powerwash To Look Awesome Again' or something (wack title 'cause I know nothing about powerwashing). You...
  16. John D.

    Mindset is what I struggle with most. Any tips?

    MINDSET 
    +1 on the above suggestion -- Andy Frisella is there to kick my a$$ on my morning workout every single day, no exceptions. Search for MFCEO Project Podcast. Quick actionable advice I got from him: Identify your 'pivot points', which are the points in time when you catch yourself contemplating...
  17. John D.

    Leaving behind friends and loved ones

    PEOPLE 
    'Friends' are dispensable and quality friends are rare. That's what I think. And I think that no matter how good of a friend they are to you, they will eventually succumb to the 'crab mentality', start to secretly envy you and make passive-aggressive efforts to get you down to their level. (I...
  18. John D.

    Dopamine Fasting (NSFW language)

    MINDSET 
    Since the video is one hour long... would you care to give us a TL;DW version of the video for some context before we watch it?
  19. John D.

    Why I despise Pickup Artistry, and how to have a fulfilling sex life.

    HOT! PEOPLE 
    Reminds me of a quote from a TV show I like:
  20. John D.

    Thoughts on doing difficult things

    MINDSET 
    Cold showers and other beneficial, self-masochistic things in the morning work great for building up your discipline and mental toughness. But what I've found is they deplete my willpower tank too much, and decision-making seems to be harder for me later on in the day. Sometimes I cannot...
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