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I wish I could restart at 17 (well... maybe 20, but 17 is close enough).
Here's the advice I would give:
- Freelance in every/any way possible. This will build your confidence in working with others, your business communication skills, and you'll get better at a number of skillsets you engage in. Everything is freelance-able these days. Writing. Transcription. Typing. Cold calling. Graphic Design. Consulting. Pick ANYTHING you are even remotely good at and give it a try. Even in the real world you can go door to door cutting grass or shoveling snow or whatever. If someone asks you to help them move - do it.
- Read more. A lot more. Get a kindle paperwhite (it's only like $100) and it will pay for itself very quickly with the money you'll save on books. There are also tons of public domain books. Libraries even lend out digital books. And of course there are "other" ways I won't advocate. The take-away is that you should be killing at LEAST a book a month. Two would be far better. Read business/psychology/self help/personal finance/biography/etc... anything non fiction. Fiction CAN be great (Atlas Shrugged, hint hint) but I'd really stick to the non-fiction 9 time out of 10.
- Here's the biggest, hardest one but it will only get harder the older you get: associate with the right people. You're friends right now are probably super-duper awesome folks who you've known your whole life that you couldn't imagine living without. They are also almost certainly the wrong people to help you get ahead in life. Try to make new friends right now with SUCCESSFUL folks. Folks who share the entrepreneurial spirit. In 10 years you'll either be talking about the latest Call of Duty game coming out, how expensive daycare is, what some jerk manager told your friend to do the other day (the nerve!) or you could be talking about solving each other's business problems and how to get further ahead in life. There's nothing wrong with having non-business friends (I have tons) but you should make a conscious effort to spend MORE time with those who will push you to be better. Normal people see success negatively and pull you down to stay with them on their level. If you don't think it's true just try refusing a free doughnut, bagel, or slice of pizza for "fitness reasons" around a bunch of unfit people. Successful people, on the other hand, push you up and genuinely hope you knock it out of the park with everything in life.
- Speaking of fitness, get fit. Join a gym. Workout some how. Eat healthy. Building good habits at 17 is far easier than breaking bad habits at 35 (ask me how I know...). Good health makes everything else in life easier. Avoid alcohol and drugs. Not that I have anything against these things but at 17 they are the easiest and most life destroying habits you can sidle up next to. Alcohol becomes a stress reliever. Drugs become your socialization. Those are two horrible crutches to break free from. If you insist on getting in bed with those two things, make it the rarest exceptions for special occasions, not a daily/weekly form of enjoyment.
- Get a job and aspire to get better jobs. If you go a year without looking for a new job, you're too comfortable. You don't have to GET a new job every year but you should be looking for upward movement at all times. You'll learn things at a job that can be very useful later. You'll get paid regularly, which is important. You'll learn more interpersonal skills. Take on extra challenges and keep your work load high. You'll learn how to not be lazy, not to procrastinate.
- Don't get complacent. You shouldn't spend very long at the same level. It's too easy to fall into that trap. Your mind loves habits and wants everything to stay comfortable but growth requires discomfort and movement. There's ALWAYS something to work on getting better at. If you go a few months without learning something new or working on improvement you are likely stuck in a mediocre frame of mind. Push yourself to be better. Eat a little healthier. Work out more efficiently. Make more phone calls to friends and family. Freelance a bit more. Find a better job. Do your current job a bit better. Solve a problem that you've been ignoring. Anything - just keep the upward attitude.
- Start a business, if possible. Some folks on here built their success upon skills they learned starting businesses at very young ages. This isn't the rule though - if you can make it work, great, but if not, don't worry about it. Starting a business is often expensive (for a 17 year old) and time consuming. Especially in school. If you see a way to do it, absolutely jump on it, but I'd argue the good habits built from the above are far more important right now.
Anyway - this is already getting too long. Everyone has their own path and you'll find yours. But IMHO the #1 most important thing is working on habits, social skills, and attitudes. At 17 you can either join the crowd (get a job, eat like shit, drown your sorrows in booze and drugs, complain about your boss, work whatever job you can get, and engage in escapist behaviors like video games and partying) or stand out from it (build things, get better at things, improve and grow in all areas of your life) and if you don't make that choice, it will be made for you. You'll wake up 10-20 years down the line and think "what the F*ck happened? I had so many plans". Don't let that be you.
Here's the advice I would give:
- Freelance in every/any way possible. This will build your confidence in working with others, your business communication skills, and you'll get better at a number of skillsets you engage in. Everything is freelance-able these days. Writing. Transcription. Typing. Cold calling. Graphic Design. Consulting. Pick ANYTHING you are even remotely good at and give it a try. Even in the real world you can go door to door cutting grass or shoveling snow or whatever. If someone asks you to help them move - do it.
- Read more. A lot more. Get a kindle paperwhite (it's only like $100) and it will pay for itself very quickly with the money you'll save on books. There are also tons of public domain books. Libraries even lend out digital books. And of course there are "other" ways I won't advocate. The take-away is that you should be killing at LEAST a book a month. Two would be far better. Read business/psychology/self help/personal finance/biography/etc... anything non fiction. Fiction CAN be great (Atlas Shrugged, hint hint) but I'd really stick to the non-fiction 9 time out of 10.
- Here's the biggest, hardest one but it will only get harder the older you get: associate with the right people. You're friends right now are probably super-duper awesome folks who you've known your whole life that you couldn't imagine living without. They are also almost certainly the wrong people to help you get ahead in life. Try to make new friends right now with SUCCESSFUL folks. Folks who share the entrepreneurial spirit. In 10 years you'll either be talking about the latest Call of Duty game coming out, how expensive daycare is, what some jerk manager told your friend to do the other day (the nerve!) or you could be talking about solving each other's business problems and how to get further ahead in life. There's nothing wrong with having non-business friends (I have tons) but you should make a conscious effort to spend MORE time with those who will push you to be better. Normal people see success negatively and pull you down to stay with them on their level. If you don't think it's true just try refusing a free doughnut, bagel, or slice of pizza for "fitness reasons" around a bunch of unfit people. Successful people, on the other hand, push you up and genuinely hope you knock it out of the park with everything in life.
- Speaking of fitness, get fit. Join a gym. Workout some how. Eat healthy. Building good habits at 17 is far easier than breaking bad habits at 35 (ask me how I know...). Good health makes everything else in life easier. Avoid alcohol and drugs. Not that I have anything against these things but at 17 they are the easiest and most life destroying habits you can sidle up next to. Alcohol becomes a stress reliever. Drugs become your socialization. Those are two horrible crutches to break free from. If you insist on getting in bed with those two things, make it the rarest exceptions for special occasions, not a daily/weekly form of enjoyment.
- Get a job and aspire to get better jobs. If you go a year without looking for a new job, you're too comfortable. You don't have to GET a new job every year but you should be looking for upward movement at all times. You'll learn things at a job that can be very useful later. You'll get paid regularly, which is important. You'll learn more interpersonal skills. Take on extra challenges and keep your work load high. You'll learn how to not be lazy, not to procrastinate.
- Don't get complacent. You shouldn't spend very long at the same level. It's too easy to fall into that trap. Your mind loves habits and wants everything to stay comfortable but growth requires discomfort and movement. There's ALWAYS something to work on getting better at. If you go a few months without learning something new or working on improvement you are likely stuck in a mediocre frame of mind. Push yourself to be better. Eat a little healthier. Work out more efficiently. Make more phone calls to friends and family. Freelance a bit more. Find a better job. Do your current job a bit better. Solve a problem that you've been ignoring. Anything - just keep the upward attitude.
- Start a business, if possible. Some folks on here built their success upon skills they learned starting businesses at very young ages. This isn't the rule though - if you can make it work, great, but if not, don't worry about it. Starting a business is often expensive (for a 17 year old) and time consuming. Especially in school. If you see a way to do it, absolutely jump on it, but I'd argue the good habits built from the above are far more important right now.
Anyway - this is already getting too long. Everyone has their own path and you'll find yours. But IMHO the #1 most important thing is working on habits, social skills, and attitudes. At 17 you can either join the crowd (get a job, eat like shit, drown your sorrows in booze and drugs, complain about your boss, work whatever job you can get, and engage in escapist behaviors like video games and partying) or stand out from it (build things, get better at things, improve and grow in all areas of your life) and if you don't make that choice, it will be made for you. You'll wake up 10-20 years down the line and think "what the F*ck happened? I had so many plans". Don't let that be you.