SebastianSkinner
Contributor
Gents,
In my opinion if you want to find the best girl you can you need to make sure you are maxing out in all the areas you can control in your life. For example:
Hit the gym - your body shape and amount of muscle you have is in your control and will also help build your confidence and attractiveness.
Style - Make sure you are on point with your clothes, haircut etc. Basic rule of thumb make sure that your clothes are fitted.
Money - Focus on your career or business whatever it is.
All of the above are in everyone's control unlike external factors that we are dealt with through the genetic lottery. Max out the above. Focus on going on dates once or twice a week and and spin multiple plates to fully understand what type of girl really knocks your socks off. Just get in the habit of messaging different girls across the apps or meeting girls out in bars / Cafe's whatever floats your boat (Covid dependant!). The more you date the easier / funner it becomes and the better results you will have. Its like any other skill, it needs practice.
I personally don't get the rush to settle down. Focus on your purpose, your business and your health and the right girls at the right time will come into your life. If one of them brings too much drama to your life NEXT. If you think she's the right one by all means settle down.
Anyways just my two cents.
Best,
Seb
In my opinion if you want to find the best girl you can you need to make sure you are maxing out in all the areas you can control in your life. For example:
Hit the gym - your body shape and amount of muscle you have is in your control and will also help build your confidence and attractiveness.
Style - Make sure you are on point with your clothes, haircut etc. Basic rule of thumb make sure that your clothes are fitted.
Money - Focus on your career or business whatever it is.
All of the above are in everyone's control unlike external factors that we are dealt with through the genetic lottery. Max out the above. Focus on going on dates once or twice a week and and spin multiple plates to fully understand what type of girl really knocks your socks off. Just get in the habit of messaging different girls across the apps or meeting girls out in bars / Cafe's whatever floats your boat (Covid dependant!). The more you date the easier / funner it becomes and the better results you will have. Its like any other skill, it needs practice.
I personally don't get the rush to settle down. Focus on your purpose, your business and your health and the right girls at the right time will come into your life. If one of them brings too much drama to your life NEXT. If you think she's the right one by all means settle down.
Anyways just my two cents.
Best,
Seb