GoodluckChuck
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Grant Cardone helped me with this one. I had this idea in the back of my head the whole time but he solidified it when he said something like:
"Fear is life's way of telling you what should be moving towards. If you move towards fear instead of away from it you are growing. If you move away, you are retreating. "
I thought about this a lot until it was embedded in my psyche that I needed to move towards the fear and feel good about that even though it is scary.
100% of the times I've moved toward fear and conquered it, it was a good experience. After enough of those experiences, it's easy to press on.
It turns into a habit after a while. Self-talk is very powerful here. Saying things like, "Oh good, I'm afraid of this. That's a sign that I'm heading in the right direction." - really helps.
"Fear is life's way of telling you what should be moving towards. If you move towards fear instead of away from it you are growing. If you move away, you are retreating. "
I thought about this a lot until it was embedded in my psyche that I needed to move towards the fear and feel good about that even though it is scary.
100% of the times I've moved toward fear and conquered it, it was a good experience. After enough of those experiences, it's easy to press on.
It turns into a habit after a while. Self-talk is very powerful here. Saying things like, "Oh good, I'm afraid of this. That's a sign that I'm heading in the right direction." - really helps.