I have always struggled making friends and maintaining relationships because of low self esteem, and lack of personality. Now the thing is, I am in college and its been difficult for me to make friends. I have always wanted to be social and that guy who can make friends with anyone and have fun, and i know my low self esteem is why i struggle but i cant seem to fix it. I ma not witty enough, and if someone insults me I am not able to give it back to them and amongst lads this is necessary and it essentially is what forms the friendship. Like i often have difficulty standing up for myself, and many times i feel like i am not respected, which results in me being more quiet and reserved. I really hate this and i just want to get rid of this.
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