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Nominations/Vote: Book Discussion (New Poll Posted!)

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Which book to discuss?

  • Never Split The Difference, Chris Voss

    Votes: 31 20.0%
  • Atomic Habits, Clear

    Votes: 61 39.4%
  • Ultimate Sales Machine, Holmes

    Votes: 30 19.4%
  • The Slight Edge, Jeff Olson

    Votes: 18 11.6%
  • The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea, Burg and Mann

    Votes: 15 9.7%

  • Total voters
    155
  • Poll closed .

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PLEASE VOTE ON THE BOOK TO DISCUSS.

NEW POLL EVERY MONTH.


A suggestion was made by @Primeperiwinkle to start a book discussion and review group about pre-selected books chosen by the forum.

This goes beyond just "Have you read this book?" or "I recommend this!" but to actually discuss a book chapter by chapter.

We actually did some of this many years ago.

I think we should give it a whirl.

So with that said, I'm asking for nominations for our FIRST book to officially review and discuss.

Once we decide, the forum will have a few weeks to purchase and read the book. We can then open the discussion. Looking at January 2019 for the first one.

So if you have a nomination, post away -- nominations not limited to business/entrepreneurship, but anything that can help our journey.

I'll select 5 nominees and then put it to a vote.

To nominate, please post:

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Principles by Ray Dalio
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Yup, it's always valueable to get some perspective from time to time because 99% of our worries aren't really worth wasting your time about.

David made me realize how weak our society today is and how important it is for us, entrepreneurs, to get stronger and keep toughening up. People get offended for no reason, worry about insignificant shit, lose their composure when something irritates them a little, or give up just because they faced a tiny obstacle.

If you get good at suffering and pushing through despite immense pain, insurmountable obstacles, and unfairness, then everyday problems won't bother you at all. On the other end of the spectrum, if you stay in your comfort zone, protected from everything that might be unpleasant, then even the tiniest problem will feel like the end of the world.

One of the things I realized thanks to the book is that I'm not pushing myself even 10% as much as I should when it comes to physical fitness, which is one of the best ways to toughen up not only physically, but also mentally. I consider myself fairly fit, but what David does is on another, incomprehensible level. I'm going to change my routine and raise my standards. Time to take some souls.
 

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Bump, looks like Atomic Habits (Clear) is winning. Maybe I can get him on here for an AMA.
 

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This book I've read about half way, but very interesting.
The focus of the book is mindset, subconscious, and limiting beliefs.

One major thesis is that we humans need goals to strive for, and we achieve them trough trial and error using a feedback loop.

Originally published in 1960 by a plastic surgeon, he describes how some patients mental picture held them back, not their physical appearance.

The influence of self image, subconscious beliefs, visualizations, and action with trial and error are main topics of the book.

MJ talks about the 3Bs, beliefs, biases and bullshit.... this entire book is about re-shaping your 3Bs


Psycho-cybernetics
By: Maxwell Maltz

https://amzn.to/2EeSOvF

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Damn, I think I opened a Pandora's Box, lots of great suggestions here.
 
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Haven’t read the book yet, but Goggin’s stuff really motivates me. I remember biking last summer and the top of the summit was like 10 minutes away and I’d say to myself, Goggins wouldn’t give up here. Whenever I’m tired I hear his voice... the brain gives up when the body can do 40% more.

My friends and I reference his stuff a lot when we workout. Below is a text exchange from last month when my friend was tired lol.

Can’t wait to read his new book!

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Goggins wins!

Go get the book -- official thread will start soon!
 

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@RazorCut and @Andy Black, I found his entire story very valuable because you get to see how he changes and what drives him later on. His later accomplishments wouldn't mean that much without the back story. Granted, I admire the guy a lot, so I could probably read his musings on how to cook potatoes lol.
 
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I just finished Can't Hurt Me and man, I don't think I've ever heard a story of a person who had to deal with so many indescribable hardships. I have even more respect for David now - I don't think I'd be able to face and survive all the things he went through. Now I also understand why he's so tough and appears to be a masochist.

I don't necessarily think that all of us should live like he does, but there's a lot you can learn from him - particularly regarding mental resilience (after reading his story, you'll feel stupid complaining about little stuff like some minor business problems).
 
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@RazorCut and @Andy Black, I found his entire story very valuable because you get to see how he changes and what drives him later on. His later accomplishments wouldn't mean that much without the back story. Granted, I admire the guy a lot, so I could probably read his musings on how to cook potatoes lol.

he probably doesn't even peel the mother******
 

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Come on people, vote for Goggins! It's real and raw stuff.
 
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I just finished Can't Hurt Me and man, I don't think I've ever heard a story of a person who had to deal with so many indescribable hardships. I have even more respect for David now - I don't think I'd be able to face and survive all the things he went through. Now I also understand why he's so tough and appears to be a masochist.

I don't necessarily think that all of us should live like he does, but there's a lot you can learn from him - particularly regarding mental resilience (after reading his story, you'll feel stupid complaining about little stuff like some minor business problems).

I picked up two things from David that has helped me immensely. Running (doing things you hate) & journaling everything.

Journaling was the hardest. I had tried before. So, it took a few weeks. Now, I am remembering everything that has happened to me. Writing it all down. Also writing down what I have done to people as well. I was pretty embarrassed the first few days. I sucked it and charged ahead. I don't think I'll stop journaling.

His second podcast with Rogan is pretty good.
 
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If you get good at suffering and pushing through despite immense pain, insurmountable obstacles, and unfairness, then everyday problems won't bother you at all. On the other end of the spectrum, if you stay in your comfort zone, protected from everything that might be unpleasant, then even the tiniest problem will feel like the end of the world.

It has been the toughest year of business so far for me. So many things have gone wrong, mostly because China. Yet, each big thing that goes wrong, seems a little less big. It affects me emotionally less and less.

A year ago, one big problem, and I wanted to curl up and die.

Now, I've just taken to not being surprised. Expecting that things are going to come at me.

You face a situation, you make a plan. What's the next step?

I'm not pushing myself even 10% as much as I should when it comes to physical fitness, which is one of the best ways to toughen up not only physically, but also mentally.

Right now I'm torn between dedicating another couple years to rock climbing, or to jump into BJJ instead. I have this hunch that martial arts would really help to toughen me up mentally.
 

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OK I picked 4 and made a poll.

Please vote.

The other books NOT in the poll (as well as the ones that don't win) will be considered for the next month.

Would love to discuss them all.
 

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People get offended for no reason, worry about insignificant sh*t, lose their composure when something irritates them a little, or give up just because they faced a tiny obstacle.

In an interview with Tom Bilyeu, Goggins said it is easy nowadays to become GREAT because most people have turned into delicate snowflakes.

How True!
 
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I am currently reading BAD BLOOD - the story about the implosion of Elizabeth Holmes and Theranos. Good read.
 
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I nominate a non-fiction book written for the benefit of the 50+ potential entrepreneurs in this group.
Book Title- Encore! Encore! Seniors 50 Plus As Entrepreneurs: Their Time Has Come
Author- [REMOVED]
Amazon Link-[REMOVED]
Website, Book Cover,Sample Chapter & Lulu Link[REMOVED]

So you're nominating a book you wrote yourself? And then lying to us about your affiliation with it?

Yea that will work spectacularly.
 
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I'm about 1/2 way through "Can't Hurt Me." Is there another thread for the book discussion, or just the bits and pieces I've seen on this thread? Sorry, a bit confused.

Actual discussion hasn't started yet. Starts next week after XMAS. Giving folks time to read.
 

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I nominate Gorilla Mindset.

Instead of long stories about how badass the writer is, you get truly ACTIONABLE & concise advice that helps you live a more fruitful life -- and deal with the stress that might come with the lifestyle of pursuing financial freedom.

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Ok, I've read almost all the Fastlaner Recommended books so I'll nominate a starter book that everyone can learn/start from:

1. You are a Badass at Making Money
2. Jen Sincero
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