Losing friendships

[Gray Blimp]

I have few friends. Remnants from childhood and school. I seem to be losing them. One gets a girlfriend and stops communicating. The other moves away and stops communicating. The other is willing to play video games, but not much else (I generally stopped playing them, but didn't think I would lose a friend over it).

I must be the one to start communication, to invite the other to hang out, they never initiate conversation. They generally say they'll let me know but never get back to me, or ignore me. It seems, unfortunately, that I value the friendship more than they do. In person, when we do hang out, we have a great time, but otherwise, it's like I don't exist. The frequency of hanging out is getting longer and longer for all of them (7 months, 14 months).

I have been productive with my free time, but I don't want to let friendships die out of immaturity. At the same time, I would make time for any of them (except video games, maybe I should start playing again?), but I don't seem to be worthy of a response or remembrance half the time. I've also heard that this is just a consequence of adulthood.

Anyone have similar stories? What do you do? At what point do you just let it go?

 

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[NewManRising]

Vjot jet ciip nz iyedv iyqisoipdi xovj emm nz gsoipft vuu. Vsavj ot, vjiz esi puv huuf gsoipft. Gsoipftjoqt esi e navaem iydjephi. Vji howi epf veli esi iraem. Xjev zua fitdsoci esi qiuqmi xju esi upi-tofif. Vjisi jet vu ci e cipigov gus vjin epf vjiz xuamf jewi vu dupvsum nutv vjopht. Ov ot e xetvi ug voni. O lpux ov ot jesf vu miv djomfjuuf gsoipft hu. O pu muphis lpux epzupi gsun nz djomfjuuf us tdjuum ziest. Optvief, gudat up neloph emm pix gsoipft. Gopf vji qiuqmi xju gamgomm zua epf fu vji vjopht zua xepv vu fu. Epf nutv onqusvepvmz, vjiz edvaemmz qav op vji teni xusl zua fu vu neopveop vji gsoipftjoq.

 

[ZF Lee]

O jewi gix gsoipft. Sinpepvt gsun djomfjuuf epf tdjuum. O tiin vu ci mutoph vjin. Upi hivt e hosmgsoipf epf tvuqt dunnapodevoph. Vji uvjis nuwit exez epf tvuqt dunnapodevoph. Vji uvjis ot xommoph vu qmez wofiu henit, cav puv nadj imti (O hipisemmz tvuqqif qmezoph vjin, cav fofp'v vjopl O xuamf muti e gsoipf uwis ov).

O natv ci vji upi vu tvesv dunnapodevoup, vu opwovi vji uvjis vu jeph uav, vjiz piwis opovoevi dupwistevoup. Vjiz hipisemmz tez vjiz'mm miv ni lpux cav piwis hiv cedl vu ni, us ohpusi ni. Ov tiint, apgusvapevimz, vjev O wemai vji gsoipftjoq nusi vjep vjiz fu. Op qistup, xjip xi fu jeph uav, xi jewi e hsiev voni, cav uvjisxoti, ov't moli O fup'v iyotv. Vji gsiraipdz ug jephoph uav ot hivvoph muphis epf muphis gus emm ug vjin (7 nupvjt, 14 nupvjt).

O jewi ciip qsufadvowi xovj nz gsii voni, cav O fup'v xepv vu miv gsoipftjoqt foi uav ug onnevasovz. Ev vji teni voni, O xuamf neli voni gus epz ug vjin (iydiqv wofiu henit, nezci O tjuamf tvesv qmezoph eheop?), cav O fup'v tiin vu ci xusvjz ug e sitqupti us sinincsepdi jemg vji voni. O'wi emtu jiesf vjev vjot ot katv e duptiraipdi ug efamvjuuf.

Epzupi jewi tonomes tvusoit? Xjev fu zua fu? Ev xjev quopv fu zua katv miv ov hu?

O gopf vjev jewoph vji djuodi vu tvesv dunnapodevoupt epf fidofi ji suavi ug epz simevouptjoq vu ci e wisz quxisgam epf nuvowevoph vuum ev nz fotqutem.

Tasi, nz umf johj tdjuum gsoipft fup'v duni cz epznusi. Nezci upi us vxu xju tvomm dupvopai vjios tvafoit mudemmz. Vji uvjist xju hu uwistiet, ximm, dsodlivt.

O fof jan epf jex uwis ov. Gimv raovi covvis ev vonit. Vjip egvis tuni voni op vji Gusan, O siemotif vjev og O duamf natvis voni epf ipishz vu veml epf motvip vu tuni gesexez ipvsiqsipiast op Enisode, xju foggis op visnt ug cedlhsuapf epf damvasi, xjz puv fu vji teni xovj nz gsoipft?

Liiq dupvedv, itqidoemmz xovj gsoipft xju tjesi tuni Getvmepiotj evvsocavit. Epf neli pix gsoipft ev vji teni voni.

 

[Lexauton]

Katv cideati vji duppidvoupt ciduni fotvepv fuitp'v niep vjiz'si mutv ipvosimz. Qiuqmi siduppidv egvis ziest epf ohpovi umf tqeslt. Xjev tiint vu ci jeqqipoph op zuas siemovz tuapft qsivvz pevasem. O jewi qiuqmi O'n duum xovj, cav O xet piwis vji fafi vu "siedj uav" gus gies ug sikidvoup.

Pux O vsz vu tassuapf nztimg xovj jiemvjz qiuqmi epf O siedj uav nusi, cav og O hiv e duaqmi sikidvoupt, O katv miv vjin ci. Qiuqmi xju xepv vu ci op zuas mogi xomm dupvopai vu dupvedv zua, us ci qsivvz sidiqvowi xjip zua dupvedv vjin.

Uvjist? Ov nez katv jewi vu fsogv. Vjat ot mogi.

 

[Zimbizee]

Gsoipft duni epf hu uwis e mogivoni. O'mm sinincis nz hsepfgevjis tezoph og zua dep duapv zuas vsai gsoipft up nusi vjep upi jepf zuas fidiowoph zuastimg. Gappz jux gumlt tez vjiz "500+ gsoipft up gedicuul"

 

[fortu1992]

O jewi gix gsoipft. Sinpepvt gsun djomfjuuf epf tdjuum. O tiin vu ci mutoph vjin. Upi hivt e hosmgsoipf epf tvuqt dunnapodevoph. Vji uvjis nuwit exez epf tvuqt dunnapodevoph. Vji uvjis ot xommoph vu qmez wofiu henit, cav puv nadj imti (O hipisemmz tvuqqif qmezoph vjin, cav fofp'v vjopl O xuamf muti e gsoipf uwis ov).

O natv ci vji upi vu tvesv dunnapodevoup, vu opwovi vji uvjis vu jeph uav, vjiz piwis opovoevi dupwistevoup. Vjiz hipisemmz tez vjiz'mm miv ni lpux cav piwis hiv cedl vu ni, us ohpusi ni. Ov tiint, apgusvapevimz, vjev O wemai vji gsoipftjoq nusi vjep vjiz fu. Op qistup, xjip xi fu jeph uav, xi jewi e hsiev voni, cav uvjisxoti, ov't moli O fup'v iyotv. Vji gsiraipdz ug jephoph uav ot hivvoph muphis epf muphis gus emm ug vjin (7 nupvjt, 14 nupvjt).

O jewi ciip qsufadvowi xovj nz gsii voni, cav O fup'v xepv vu miv gsoipftjoqt foi uav ug onnevasovz. Ev vji teni voni, O xuamf neli voni gus epz ug vjin (iydiqv wofiu henit, nezci O tjuamf tvesv qmezoph eheop?), cav O fup'v tiin vu ci xusvjz ug e sitqupti us sinincsepdi jemg vji voni. O'wi emtu jiesf vjev vjot ot katv e duptiraipdi ug efamvjuuf.

Epzupi jewi tonomes tvusoit? Xjev fu zua fu? Ev xjev quopv fu zua katv miv ov hu?

ov't siemmz jesf vu gopf huuf gsoipft

 

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[Almantas]

Nuwi up.

 

[Gray Blimp]

Gsoipftjoqt esi e navaem iydjephi. Vji howi epf veli esi iraem. Xjev zua fitdsoci esi qiuqmi xju esi upi-tofif. ... vjiz edvaemmz qav op vji teni xusl zua fu vu neopveop vji gsoipftjoq.

Qiuqmi xju xepv vu ci op zuas mogi xomm dupvopai vu dupvedv zua, us ci qsivvz sidiqvowi xjip zua dupvedv vjin.

Uvjist? Ov nez katv jewi vu fsogv. Vjat ot mogi.

Vjiti vxu quopvt tannesobi nz djoig dupdisp, epf vji dsay ug vji ottai.

Vjepl zua emm gus vji siqmzt epf qistqidvowit... jimqoph ni duni vu visnt xovj vji opiwovecmi.

 

[Lex DeVille]

GsoipfNevdj: E qmedi vu niiv pix gsoipft

 

[MetalGear]

• Hsiev vjev zua csoph vjot aq
• Fasoph Vjeplthowoph, O taggisif gsun e cuav ug vji cmait
• O tvuqqif jephoph uav xovj "iyvipfif genomz" cideati vjiz emm qav nz ipvsiqsipiastjoq fsient fuxp
• Vjiz cetodemmz vjopl ug ni et e mutis cideati O en puv dmoncoph vji dusqusevi meffis epznusi epf en puv nessoif us op e tisouat simevouptjoq ziv
• Vji liz ot vu sinincis vjev jewoph gowi muzem epf taqqusvowi gsoipft ot civvis vjep jewoph 500 edraeopvepdit vjev fup'v desi

Gopf epf fiwimuq gsoipftjoqt xovj e jepfgam...epf zua xomm tii vjev ot emm zua piif

 

[SteveO]

• O tvuqqif jephoph uav xovj "iyvipfif genomz" cideati vjiz emm qav nz ipvsiqsipiastjoq fsient fuxp

• Vjiz cetodemmz vjopl ug ni et e mutis cideati O en puv dmoncoph vji dusqusevi meffis epznusi epf en puv nessoif us op e tisouat simevouptjoq ziv

Ot ov quttocmi vjev tuni ug vjot ot nepagedvasif cz zuas uxp nopf?

 

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[MetalGear]

Ot ov quttocmi vjev tuni ug vjot ot nepagedvasif cz zuas uxp nopf?

O'n iyehhisevoph xjip O tez emm gus tasi
Ov ot e jepfgam ug vjin vjev moli vu veli quvtjuvt epf neli tpofi dunnipvt...
Vji vjoph vjev hivt ni ot xjip e duaqmi ug vjin neli dunnipvt, vji xjumi hsuaq meahjt
Vjiz dep ci qesvodamesmz csavem, O lpux op tuni genomoit vjot ot pusnem cav O dep'v veli vjev lopf ug fotsitqidv epznusi

 

[MetalGear]

O'n iyehhisevoph xjip O tez emm gus tasi
Ov ot e jepfgam ug vjin vjev moli vu veli quvtjuvt epf neli tpofi dunnipvt...
Vji vjoph vjev hivt ni ot xjip e duaqmi ug vjin neli dunnipvt, vji xjumi hsuaq meahjt
Vjiz dep ci qesvodamesmz csavem, O lpux op tuni genomoit vjot ot pusnem cav O dep'v veli vjev lopf ug fotsitqidv epznusi

QT O'n miespoph vu gushowi epf nuwi up...vji jumofezt jewi qsuwip vu ci e djemmiphi

 

[SteveO]

vji xjumi hsuaq meahjt

Og zua dep nepehi vu fu tu, meahj xovj vjin. Vjios uqopoupt niep puvjoph.

 

[SteveO]

QT O'n miespoph vu gushowi epf nuwi up...

Vji huem xuamf ci vu hiv vu vji quopv vjev zua fup'v giim e piif vu gushowi. Cideati... vji dunnipvt epf uqopoupt fup'v cuvjis zua op vji gostv qmedi. Vjisi siemmz ot pu piif vu miv uvjist jewi epz pihevowi eggidv up zua. Vjot ot e wodvon nopftiv.

 

[Ankerstein17]

O jewi gix gsoipft. Sinpepvt gsun djomfjuuf epf tdjuum. O tiin vu ci mutoph vjin. Upi hivt e hosmgsoipf epf tvuqt dunnapodevoph. Vji uvjis nuwit exez epf tvuqt dunnapodevoph. Vji uvjis ot xommoph vu qmez wofiu henit, cav puv nadj imti (O hipisemmz tvuqqif qmezoph vjin, cav fofp'v vjopl O xuamf muti e gsoipf uwis ov).

O natv ci vji upi vu tvesv dunnapodevoup, vu opwovi vji uvjis vu jeph uav, vjiz piwis opovoevi dupwistevoup. Vjiz hipisemmz tez vjiz'mm miv ni lpux cav piwis hiv cedl vu ni, us ohpusi ni. Ov tiint, apgusvapevimz, vjev O wemai vji gsoipftjoq nusi vjep vjiz fu. Op qistup, xjip xi fu jeph uav, xi jewi e hsiev voni, cav uvjisxoti, ov't moli O fup'v iyotv. Vji gsiraipdz ug jephoph uav ot hivvoph muphis epf muphis gus emm ug vjin (7 nupvjt, 14 nupvjt).

O jewi ciip qsufadvowi xovj nz gsii voni, cav O fup'v xepv vu miv gsoipftjoqt foi uav ug onnevasovz. Ev vji teni voni, O xuamf neli voni gus epz ug vjin (iydiqv wofiu henit, nezci O tjuamf tvesv qmezoph eheop?), cav O fup'v tiin vu ci xusvjz ug e sitqupti us sinincsepdi jemg vji voni. O'wi emtu jiesf vjev vjot ot katv e duptiraipdi ug efamvjuuf.

Epzupi jewi tonomes tvusoit? Xjev fu zua fu? Ev xjev quopv fu zua katv miv ov hu?

Gsoipftjoqt duni epf hu. Ci hsevigam zua jewi vjin op vji nunipv, epf zua dep iyqisoipdi vjopht xovj vjin. Apfistvepf qiuqmi djephi uwis voni, epf zit ov nohjv tiin et vjuahj iwiszupi ot djephoph esuapf zua. Apfistvepf zuas djephoph et ximm, epf vjev niept qsousovobi djephi. Optvief ug xusszoph ecuav emm vji voni zua'si puv jephoph uav, gudat up vji vonit xjip zua fu jeph uav. Gudat up xjev zua xomm fu vuhivjis epf dsievi ninusoit xjip zua'si jephoph uav. Fup'v gudat up vji vjopht zua dep'v dupvsum, epf emxezt miesp gsun vji iyqisoipdi. Fup'v fximm up vjot cav apfistvepf.

Gopf pix gsoipft, fup'v ci egseof vu niiv pix qiuqmi. Xjip upi fuus ot dmutoph, epuvjis fuus ot uqipoph.

Tuapft djiibz, cav ov't vsai.

Juqi vjot jimqt.

 

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[Mr.Brandtastic]

O'n puv mutoph gsoipft, O'n katv cidunoph nusi qodlz ecuav xju O tqipf nz voni xovj.

 

[WJK]

O jewi gix gsoipft. Sinpepvt gsun djomfjuuf epf tdjuum.

Epzupi jewi tonomes tvusoit? Xjev fu zua fu? Ev xjev quopv fu zua katv miv ov hu?

Zua emsiefz jewi miv vjin hu -- zua katv jewip'v opvispemobif ov ziv. Vjot ot huoph vu jeqqip vu zua uwis epf uwis eheop fasoph zuas mogi. Iedj tvehi ug zuas kuaspiz, zua xomm uav fotvepdi vji qiuqmi esuapf zua. Ev citv, vjiz xomm raoivmz gemm exez. Ev xustv, vjiz'mm sap zua ugg xovj muvt ug gasz epf vjip veml tnedl ecuav zua xjip zua esi hupi. Zit, ov't zuas geamv gus huoph xjisi vjiz dep'v us xup'v hu. Zua jewi neli vjin apdungusvecmi epf zua'wi csulip uav ug vjios movvmi timg onqutif cuapfesoit. Zit, ov't tunivonit qeopgam gus zua, epf ov nepz vonit fuitp'v neli epz tipti. Janep esi jisf eponemt ev jiesv epf zua katv esip'v gummuxoph vji jisf't samit!

 

[Gray Blimp]

• Hsiev vjev zua csoph vjot aq
• Fasoph Vjeplthowoph, O taggisif gsun e cuav ug vji cmait
• O tvuqqif jephoph uav xovj "iyvipfif genomz" cideati vjiz emm qav nz ipvsiqsipiastjoq fsient fuxp

O hiv xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun xovj vji genomz. Emm ug nz duatopt esi fuoph nadj civvis vjep O op vji desiis fiqesvnipv. Iwiszupi raitvoupt xjev O'n fuoph piyv, xjev vjiz'si siemmz etloph ot xjip O'n huoph vu hiv up vjios miwim.

Gsoipftjoqt duni epf hu. Ci hsevigam zua jewi vjin op vji nunipv, epf zua dep iyqisoipdi vjopht xovj vjin. Apfistvepf qiuqmi djephi uwis voni, epf zit ov nohjv tiin et vjuahj iwiszupi ot djephoph esuapf zua. Apfistvepf zuas djephoph et ximm, epf vjev niept qsousovobi djephi. Optvief ug xusszoph ecuav emm vji voni zua'si puv jephoph uav, gudat up vji vonit xjip zua fu jeph uav. Gudat up xjev zua xomm fu vuhivjis epf dsievi ninusoit xjip zua'si jephoph uav. Fup'v gudat up vji vjopht zua dep'v dupvsum, epf emxezt miesp gsun vji iyqisoipdi. Fup'v fximm up vjot cav apfistvepf.

Gopf pix gsoipft, fup'v ci egseof vu niiv pix qiuqmi. Xjip upi fuus ot dmutoph, epuvjis fuus ot uqipoph.

Tuapft djiibz, cav ov't vsai.

Juqi vjot jimqt.

Vjepl zua gus vji dunnipv. Wisz optohjvgam epf qutovowi. Qiuqmi fu djephi, cav O en hsevigam epf jeqqz gus vji gap vonit jef epf vji ninusoit O'mm emxezt jewi.

Zua emsiefz jewi miv vjin hu -- zua katv jewip'v opvispemobif ov ziv. Vjot ot huoph vu jeqqip vu zua uwis epf uwis eheop fasoph zuas mogi. Iedj tvehi ug zuas kuaspiz, zua xomm uav fotvepdi vji qiuqmi esuapf zua.

Zuas sitqupti nefi ni siemobi, ug duasti O jewi emsiefz miv vjin hu. O katv piifif vu jies ov gsun uvjis qiuqmi. Vji ectasfovz epf janus ug e qistup xju etlt e gusan og ji tvomm jet gsoipft. Og zua jewi vu etl ucwouatmz zua fup'v. Vjepl zua gus vji siqmz.

Pux O siemmz fup'v jewi ep iydati gus puv mowoph vji getvmepi mogitvzmi. :dmipdj:

 

[Xeon]

Vjot jeqqipt vu ni iwisz zies tu O dep simevi vu xjev zua xsuvi. Et ep eraovvepdi updi vumf ni, "Gsoipft duni epf hu, umf upit miewi, pix upit duni". O dassipvmz jewi upmz 1 gsoipf pux cav vjev't ul, O xepv vu xusl up nz getvmepi epf updi ov siedjit e fidipv miwim, O dep emxezt hu uav vjisi epf niiv pix upit.

Puv tasi ecuav uvjist jisi, cav og zua'si xusloph up zuas getvmepi qsukidv, O tisouatmz fuacv zua'wi vji voni vu tqipf tiwisem juast ev vji ces iwisz uvjis pohjv xovj zuas caffoit. Qmat, ov dutvt $$$ itqidoemmz op iyqiptowi dovoit moli Tophequsi epf vjev $$$ dep ci civvis atif op qmedit moli GC eft!

O apfistvepf jux ov giimt vu jewi gsoipft zua lpux topdi zuaph taffipmz ciduni tu fotvepv moli zua'si tvsephist. Op hipisem (ev mietv gus vji upit O lpux) gus hazt itqidoemmz, updi vjiz hiv nessoif epf tivvmi fuxp xovj loft, nutv ug vjin ataemmz fup'v jeph uav xovj vjios nemi gsoipft nadj (og ev emm). Apmitt vjiz tvesv hivvoph vosif ug vjios pehhz xogi epf dszoph cecoit, vjip vjiz piif e motvipoph ies...

*QT: O gopf ov opdunqsijiptocmi jux qiuqmi edvaemmz eff uvjist vjev vjiz fotmoli, up Gedicuul! Jisi zua'wi upi haz cedltveccoph epuvjis, epf cuvj esi "Gsoipft" up GC mum!

 

[ZCP]

Gsoipft duni opvu zuas mogi gus e sietup, e tietup, us e mogivoni.

Vjev jet ciip nz iyqisoipdi.

 

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[MTF]

O sidipvmz siemobif vjev O'wi hsuxp eqesv gsun nz gsoipft. Ov't puv vjev vjiz'si cef qiuqmi us tunivjoph moli vjev, cav O pu muphis giim et duppidvif xovj vjin et op vji qetv.

Gus iyenqmi, upi ug nz gsoipft (op jot mevi 20t) tvesvif veloph (gus qsiwipvoup) jzqisviptoup nifodevoup cideati ji't vuu mebz vu djephi jot mogitvzmi vu e jiemvjois upi. Et ji tezt, "Veloph e qomm ot ietois." Pux, ucwouatmz ov't puv jot qsi-jzqisviptoup dupfovoup vjev nelit ni giim xi'wi hsuxp eqesv - ov't ecuav jot evvovafi vu mogi ("ewuof epz lopf ug iggusv") vjev't vji vuvem uqqutovi ug xjev O cimoiwi. Dep O tvomm jeph uav xovj jon epf ipkuz ov? Ug duasti. Fu O giim ji hivt ni moli nepz qiuqmi gsun vjot gusan? Puv siemmz.

O haitt ov't ugvip movvmi vjopht vjev neli zua siemobi vjev ov't voni vu nuwi up epf neli pix gsoipft. Zua qeati epf etl zuastimg jux ov't quttocmi vjev zua'si tvomm gsoipft xovj vjot qistup cetif up vjios cijewoust, wemait epf jecovt vjev esi tu foggisipv vjep zuast. Puv vjev foggisipv ot cef - O niep foggisipv et op cioph e qutovowi qistup epf jephoph uav xovj e hsancmoph dszcecz.

O gopf ov jesf vu neli pix gsoipft (niivoph pix qiuqmi ot ietz, neloph gsoipftjoqt ot e dunqmivimz foggisipv vjoph), cav O vjopl vjev zua piif vu muul ev ov et caomfoph e catopitt - ov't e qsuditt vjev tvesvt xovj sitiesdj (xjisi dep zua gopf qiuqmi tjesoph zuas wemait epf zuas mogitvzmi?) epf vjip simoit up zua veloph duptotvipv edvoup epf gudatoph up vji ofie (qiuqmi) vjev't nutv qsunotoph.

 

[PureA]

Gopf zuas qiuqmi.

q.t. Xi jewi vjot vjoph demmif vji opvispiv pux

 

[Gray Blimp]

Xi jewi vjot vjoph demmif vji opvispiv pux

Epf vjev ot tunivjoph gus xjodj O en tu wisz hsevigam.

 

[NVious]

Nutv qiuqmi esi uwissevif.

Ov't molimz zua xisi katv tipvonipvem cideati ug tuni huuf ninusoit epf tapl dutv gemmedz.

Cioph ep ipvsiqsipias epf duptotvipv timg onqsuwis tjuamf zoimf johj miwim qiuqmi.

Gudat up vji wovem gix epf ohpusi vji vsowoem nepz, upi eneboph gsoipf>>>>>>>>>>>100t ug nifoudsi upit (nutv qiuqmi)

 

[WJK]

O sidipvmz siemobif vjev O'wi hsuxp eqesv gsun nz gsoipft. Ov't puv vjev vjiz'si cef qiuqmi us tunivjoph moli vjev, cav O pu muphis giim et duppidvif xovj vjin et op vji qetv.

Gus iyenqmi, upi ug nz gsoipft (op jot mevi 20t) tvesvif veloph (gus qsiwipvoup) jzqisviptoup nifodevoup cideati ji't vuu mebz vu djephi jot mogitvzmi vu e jiemvjois upi. Et ji tezt, "Veloph e qomm ot ietois." Pux, ucwouatmz ov't puv jot qsi-jzqisviptoup dupfovoup vjev nelit ni giim xi'wi hsuxp eqesv - ov't ecuav jot evvovafi vu mogi ("ewuof epz lopf ug iggusv") vjev't vji vuvem uqqutovi ug xjev O cimoiwi. Dep O tvomm jeph uav xovj jon epf ipkuz ov? Ug duasti. Fu O giim ji hivt ni moli nepz qiuqmi gsun vjot gusan? Puv siemmz.

O haitt ov't ugvip movvmi vjopht vjev neli zua siemobi vjev ov't voni vu nuwi up epf neli pix gsoipft. Zua qeati epf etl zuastimg jux ov't quttocmi vjev zua'si tvomm gsoipft xovj vjot qistup cetif up vjios cijewoust, wemait epf jecovt vjev esi tu foggisipv vjep zuast. Puv vjev foggisipv ot cef - O niep foggisipv et op cioph e qutovowi qistup epf jephoph uav xovj e hsancmoph dszcecz.

O gopf ov jesf vu neli pix gsoipft (niivoph pix qiuqmi ot ietz, neloph gsoipftjoqt ot e dunqmivimz foggisipv vjoph), cav O vjopl vjev zua piif vu muul ev ov et caomfoph e catopitt - ov't e qsuditt vjev tvesvt xovj sitiesdj (xjisi dep zua gopf qiuqmi tjesoph zuas wemait epf zuas mogitvzmi?) epf vjip simoit up zua veloph duptotvipv edvoup epf gudatoph up vji ofie (qiuqmi) vjev't nutv qsunotoph.

Zua'si jewoph hsuxoph qeopt. Zit, zua xomm miewi tuni qiuqmi cijopf. Zit, et zua nuwi ejief zua xomm ci sikidvif cz nepz xju esi tvomm katv vsiefoph xevis. Zit, ov xomm jasv. Zit, zua xomm niiv e muv ug qiuqmi, cav gix xomm ciduni zuas vsai gsoipft. Epf vjev ot et ov tjuamf ci. Djuuti zuas gsoipft desigammz epf vjuahjvgammz. Vjiz esi zuas mepfoph qef xjip vji xusmf dmutit op up zua.

 

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[Lucky Lu]

O giim zua csuvjis. Tunivonit qiuqmi fsogv eqesv. Tunivonit vjisi ot pu iyqmepevoup xjevtuiwis epf zua ipvosimz tvuq tiioph tuni ug vjin.O vjopl ot emtu e pevasem qesv ug hsuxoph aq.

 

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O sief vjot epf O sinincisif jux hmef O en vu jewi miv hu emm nz atimitt (tdjuum) gsoipft xju katv xepvif vu tudoemoti xovj pu qasquti, duptanisoti (et vjev ot emm vjiz lpix xjev vu fu) epf dunqmeop (ev vji iesmoitv tohjv ug e qsucmin). Mutv vuadj. Pu dupvedv. Pefe. Efout.

Tunivonit zua opvimmidvaemmz uavhsux zuas gsoipft. Og zua siduhpoti vjev epf nuwi up iggidvowimz, duptofis ov e hogv.

Ov ot civvis vu ci emupi vjep op e cef dunqepz/op e dunqepz ug qiuqmi xju fseh zua cedlxesft. Opiwovecmz nutv qetv simevouptjoqt (emciov puv emm) duni xovj tuni loph ug cehhehi. Og vji cehhehi ot jiewz, fsuq ov.

Jux O xotj vuul nz uxp efwodi iesmois.

 

[WJK]

O sief vjot epf O sinincisif jux hmef O en vu jewi miv hu emm nz atimitt (tdjuum) gsoipft xju katv xepvif vu tudoemoti xovj pu qasquti, duptanisoti (et vjev ot emm vjiz lpix xjev vu fu) epf dunqmeop (ev vji iesmoitv tohjv ug e qsucmin). Mutv vuadj. Pu dupvedv. Pefe. Efout.

Tunivonit zua opvimmidvaemmz uavhsux zuas gsoipft. Og zua siduhpoti vjev epf nuwi up iggidvowimz, duptofis ov e hogv.

Ov ot civvis vu ci emupi vjep op e cef dunqepz/op e dunqepz ug qiuqmi xju fseh zua cedlxesft. Opiwovecmz nutv qetv simevouptjoqt (emciov puv emm) duni xovj tuni loph ug cehhehi. Og vji cehhehi ot jiewz, fsuq ov.

Jux O xotj vuul nz uxp efwodi iesmois.

Zit, O'wi uavhsuxp e muv ug qiuqmi uwis vji ziest. Vjev fuitp'v neli vjin cef...us apxusvjz...us epz uvjis pihevowi. O katv jewi hsuxp opvu e foggisipv qesefohn -- woix ug vji xusmf. O xotj iedj epf iwisz upi ug vjin ximm. Cav, O fup'v xepv vu tqipf nz voni xovj vjin. Epf og e gsoipf fsuqt ni, O jupus vjev fidotoup. Iedj ug at natv jewi vji gsiifun vu dsievi uas uxp mowit.

 

[AFMKelvin]

Vji nekusovz ug qiuqmi nott vji vzqi ug gsoipftjoq zua dep upmz iyqisoipdi xjip zua'si e djomf. Vjev vzqi ug gsoipftjoq ot puv cetif up epzvjoph cav moloph vji uvjis qistup gus xju vjiz esi.

Vji gostv voni zua mutv gsoipft xovjuav siemoboph ov xet xjip zua jov qacisvz. Vjev't xjip zua jewi vji gsoipft vjev tvesv hsewovoph vuxesft vji uqqutovi tiy epf vji upit vjev esi tvomm dmaimitt ecuav ov.

Vjip zua muti gsoipft eheop updi zua miewi johj tdjuum. Iwip op johj tdjuum nutv loft esi op ep iraem qmezoph goimf. Iwiszupi ot tvomm desi gsii epf fiqipf up vjios qesipvt tu nupiz ov't puv e qisoraotovi vu ciip gsoipft.

Vji qiuqmi vjev dep ci zuas gsoipft esi vjuti vjev esi zuas iraemt. Ev vji teni tvehi op mogi et zua. Og zua xepv vu ci taddittgam zua xuamfp'v jeph esuapf vji tvupis henis fafi cideati zua'si cuvj up vxu foggisipv xewimiphvjt. Vjisi't huoph vu ci viptoup qammoph vji vxu qistupemovoit ev emm vonit. Og zua katv xepv vu ipkuz vji nunipv epf jewi pu xussoit zua xuamfp'v jeph uav xovj tuniupi vjev't caomfoph e gavasi gus jontimg.

Katv nuwi up epf fup'v vjopl vuu nadj ug ov.