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Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum.
I wanted to share a big paradigm I have of Losers vs Winners to see what other like-minded people think. A lot of these ideas came to me as I watched other people at a terrible job I had.
Having this list has actually inspired some changes in me. I quit porn completely because I realized that porn was a form of escapism.
I'm not saying everything I do is in the 'winner' category yet, in fact it may never be, but I've found the Winners vs Losers paradigm really useful for what behaviours I should cultivate.
Anyway, let me know if you have anything to add to the list and it may become even more useful.
I wanted to share a big paradigm I have of Losers vs Winners to see what other like-minded people think. A lot of these ideas came to me as I watched other people at a terrible job I had.
| LOSERS | WINNERS |
| Think small | Think big |
| Think short-term | Think long-term |
| Fear losing what they have | Look forward to gaining more |
| Rush | Keep a steady, sustainable pace |
| Start projects | Finish projects |
| Wish to return to the past | Look forward to the future |
Escapism | Reality |
Want other people to be losers | Want other people to be winners. |
| Resent success | Emulate success |
| Do one thing, say another | Do what they say they'll do |
Having this list has actually inspired some changes in me. I quit porn completely because I realized that porn was a form of escapism.
I'm not saying everything I do is in the 'winner' category yet, in fact it may never be, but I've found the Winners vs Losers paradigm really useful for what behaviours I should cultivate.
Anyway, let me know if you have anything to add to the list and it may become even more useful.
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