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( Jason Brown )
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When I was younger than you, I would have said yes you were selfish in public.
Deep down inside though, I would have secretly thought to myself you were doing what you should for you. I always thought I was selfish on the inside, so I masked that on the outside.
As I have grown older, I've learned to trust my "inside voice" more and more and lead me to the right choices in life.
Turns out it's not selfishness.
You did the best thing for her and yourself, even though it hurts both of you ( maybe you ).
She needs someone that can meet her needs and demands, and you are just not that person right now.
You need space and time to meet your needs and demands.
I don't like to discipline my kids and see them fail. It hurts me and them at that point in time for right then and there. However, it's what they need and is the best thing for both of us.
I wish I was 20 or 17 doing what I knew I should have done from my inside voice, instead of worrying about what people told me to do and how to act and behave.. afraid of my inside voice that I finally let out much older in life.
You're making the right choices.
How do I know? they're always the ones that are hard and you question yourself over about, again and again.
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Deep down inside though, I would have secretly thought to myself you were doing what you should for you. I always thought I was selfish on the inside, so I masked that on the outside.
As I have grown older, I've learned to trust my "inside voice" more and more and lead me to the right choices in life.
Turns out it's not selfishness.
You did the best thing for her and yourself, even though it hurts both of you ( maybe you ).
She needs someone that can meet her needs and demands, and you are just not that person right now.
You need space and time to meet your needs and demands.
I don't like to discipline my kids and see them fail. It hurts me and them at that point in time for right then and there. However, it's what they need and is the best thing for both of us.
I wish I was 20 or 17 doing what I knew I should have done from my inside voice, instead of worrying about what people told me to do and how to act and behave.. afraid of my inside voice that I finally let out much older in life.
You're making the right choices.
How do I know? they're always the ones that are hard and you question yourself over about, again and again.
.
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