First of all, what are your goals?
"I want to get a better life"
What does that mean? Do you just want the latest graphics card or do you want to get out of a shithole?
If you don't have a compelling reason, you won't change. Also, if you live in too much comfort, then guess what, chances are you're not going to change either.
I think this is one of the most important things you should face first.
Also, read some of the GOLD posts under "High Value Topics"
And a personal tip: commit to action ASAP. Even if it's just taking your neighbours' dog out or something similar.
Good luck!
"I want to get a better life"
What does that mean? Do you just want the latest graphics card or do you want to get out of a shithole?
If you don't have a compelling reason, you won't change. Also, if you live in too much comfort, then guess what, chances are you're not going to change either.
I think this is one of the most important things you should face first.
Also, read some of the GOLD posts under "High Value Topics"
And a personal tip: commit to action ASAP. Even if it's just taking your neighbours' dog out or something similar.
Good luck!