How a Girl can make you take action

[Fredyisgold]

Atm i can't afford a pack of gum. Why? Because i'm not taking action. I've been stuck in the learning loop and i didn't even realize it until ICK said to take action while you're learning. About 2 weeks ago i asked a girl to have coffee with me. I had about 4 days to make some ice cream. I started thinking how can i make some cheese by helping local businesses. Well i do know copy and i do know how to make a flyer. I made a flyer for a local Coffee Shop. They have good Coffee and an amazing place to hang out. I wrapped up the flyer and walked down to offer them it. I was walking with fear inside me. As i arrived there were two employees. I thought one of them was the Boss and i just straight up said i made you a flyer. As it turned out he was just an employee and he asked to view it. He liked it and took a picture of it and said he would show it to his boss. I should had told them i wanted to give a couple of copy's for free. I left my info and never got a call back.
I went on the date with money out of the piggy bank. I had a blast with her. Asking her on that date regardless of me being broke has made all the difference. Now my goal is to get 100 no's on the flyer offer. I know i will strike soon. I just want to help people. Are you broke like me? Lets take action together! What are your skills? We can help each other get over fear. Fear is honestly what has always paralyzed me. It still is. But, i'm kicking its a$$! I'm making calls. I don't care if i fail. What's holding you back? Maybe i can help! Are you afraid to go up to a beautiful women? Well so i'm i! Lets challenge ourselves. Lets face our fears together! Lets take F*ckING action today. Baby steps. Failure cannot overcome persistence.

 

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[AgainstAllOdds]

'Girls' are one of the most powerful driving forces there are. Our biological predisposition of liking them and needing them is a tremendous motivator.

My only advice: Go for girls that make you better. If you go for girls just to validate your ego (easy sex, etc.), then you'll stop improving beyond your ability to get girls in bed. That's why you have all these "pickup artists" who are complete failures in respect to their own lives.

 

[Fredyisgold]

'Girls' are one of the most powerful driving forces there are. Our biological predisposition of liking them and needing them is a tremendous motivator.

My only advice: Go for girls that make you better. If you go for girls just to validate your ego (easy sex, etc.), then you'll stop improving beyond your ability to get girls in bed. That's why you have all these "pickup artists" who are complete failures in respect to their own lives.

Thanks for the advice! Highly appreciated.

 

[Argue]

Yeah, girls can motivate. Look at what MJ's mom told him, "get a good paying job..."

That comment right there motivated him to break away from mediocrity.

Eminem's daughter motivated him to be a super star.

 

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[jb5150]

If you're doing something to gain the affections of a woman and that's it then you don't value yourself.
Use the analogy MJ uses re the exclusivity of money when you chase it as being that cat in the tree. Same applies to women and having a scarcity mindset.