haters are your friends!

[Brian Suh]

I absolutely LOOOOVE when people say I can't do something or they want me to fail because that actually boosts my ability to succeed. Something about human nature about proving people wrong. It is like a fight or flight instinct. I don't know. It is hard to describe but it is either I do this or I die. Maybe it stems from evolution? Whatever. Doesn't matter. Use everything for positive energy towards your goal and never give up and give in!

 

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[Mattie]

Life is filled with characters who may or may not want you to succeed. Some people sabotage you out of the subconscious mind, and don't even realize what they're doing. The best thing I learned nine years ago was take your focus off what other people are saying or doing. You ever watched sports players pay attention to what the audience thinks or says. Ha ha...only problem with this with myself, is I've just learned to tune out everyone, and then they get mad because your so focused and start complaining because you're in the zone.

People want your attention. And if they don't get it, then they sabotage you because your minding your own business. Life is just humorous. And you used to want their attention, but you don't need it anymore. You don't need to stand in their way, but they sure like standing in yours. All about perception in the experience. You can absolutely do nothing to another person, and they're imagination can go wild. We make great story tellers.