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Its my one year anniversary in FLM, I am still very much works in progress, but here goes my two step forward, one step backwards journey.

I am breaking down into lifestyle, health and work/finance.

Lifestyle-wise, for past one year.
  • I quit facebook, coffee and excess sugar. I still take sugary stuff once a while, but with moderation.

  • I fap less. A year ago, I was addicted to porn and fap, it was almost a daily habit, I've now got it under control. My longest refrain was 45 days followed by 30 days, and my usual restrain is ~ a week. I also started building a healthier dating circle. It is still my biggest challenge so far wrt porn.

  • I meditate. This is still a hit and miss, but most days I can do 7 - 8 minutes, which scarily was very hard in the beginning.
My second year FLF lifestyle wish
  • I hope to make meditation a permanent habit doing it 15 minutes a day. I don't "sense" the benefit yet, but sage people have said it is helpful, and if should find out myself by upping to 15 minutes a day.
  • I also wish to wake up early at 7am daily I don't know if I can......as monthly intercontinental travels messes up things.
Health-wise, for past one year.
  • lost 5 kg
  • Reduced body fat to 19% in January (much less now but didn't get to measure because of Covid)
  • Reduced Body Fat Mass to 13.1kg in January
  • I count my calories. I know my base is 1600, and ctive lifestyle 2300ish. I know how much I am burning (eg: 40 minutes jog burns 400 KCal), and eating (a sweet potato in the morning takes 150 KCal, an egg is 80KCal etc)
  • I go to gym systematically about six months ago. It used to be "just lift some irons" to recording progresses and doing the macro exercises the get the most bang. Two colleagues comment on the changes when I was shirts off.
  • I am already eating healthy since a teenager, if anything it's just cutting out midnight snacks more thoroughly which I do more often than I should.
  • Shout out to @Ninjakid @Champion @deckthehalls @iced_steez @Tourmaline @Roli @Tourmaline, especially to @MrStoic886 for helping me get on the workout part. @Defection on diet advices!
My second year FLF lifestyle wish
  • Continue what I do, I am at a beginner's gain period for gym, hence I am gaining muscle and losing fat at the same time, hopefully I can continue doing progressive overload to lift better and look better.

Work-wise
  • I run a company with few hundred employees, I always had the feeling that it is out of control, I still have that feeling but it has lessened with the GSD method. At least I can keep my mind out of it by recording things on GSD. I still make the mistake of putting too many task on the "to-do/immediate" column, as it is advised to only have three task at a time, you can't do other things if you have not finished the task.
  • Finance has always been a mess, I've tried to organize it since four years ago, I don't know if it is the constant improvement that is getting me there or it's FLF. I really am a mess in this department, for example, upon cleaning up my "debt book" recently I found out that a company actually owed us few hundred thousand dollars. They were ready to pay, we weren't asking them to pay.
  • Finance 2. While I am at the low millions net worth, I feel that I have missed out on taking care of my finances better and would have been in a position twice my net worth.
My second year FLF work wish
  • To learn to be more of a numbers guy. I felt that I always avoid numbers - be in sales, finance etc. It's a major bottleneck for me and the firm.
Looking towards my second year!
 
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Wisz dmies huemt zua'wi tiv aq gus zuastimg!

Zua nipvoup vjev vjev vji nifovevoup ot tvomm e jov epf nott. Fof zua iyqisonipv xovj nifovevoup e muv? Qistupemmz, O'wi ipduapvisif vji teni "vjot fuitp'v fu ni epz huuf" nunipv egvis vszoph vu nifovevi iwisz nuspoph op cif egvis tuni siefoph gus ecuav e xiil. Juxiwis, O'wi puvodif vjev ov xuslt e muv civvis gus ni xjip O katv veli e tvsumm op vji qesl vu dmies nz nopf. Vjisi't e muv ug foggisipv lopf ug nifovevoupt.

Xjev lopf ug catopitt fu zua sap? Tuapft moli raovi vji tvsahhmi nepehoph e gix japfsif inqmuziit.
 
Wisz dmies huemt zua'wi tiv aq gus zuastimg!

Zua nipvoup vjev vjev vji nifovevoup ot tvomm e jov epf nott. Fof zua iyqisonipv xovj nifovevoup e muv? Qistupemmz, O'wi ipduapvisif vji teni "vjot fuitp'v fu ni epz huuf" nunipv egvis vszoph vu nifovevi iwisz nuspoph op cif egvis tuni siefoph gus ecuav e xiil. Juxiwis, O'wi puvodif vjev ov xuslt e muv civvis gus ni xjip O katv veli e tvsumm op vji qesl vu dmies nz nopf. Vjisi't e muv ug foggisipv lopf ug nifovevoupt.

Xjev lopf ug catopitt fu zua sap? Tuapft moli raovi vji tvsahhmi nepehoph e gix japfsif inqmuziit.

Zie, e tvsumm op vji qesl xuslt xupfist. O moli vu hu uavfuus vu dmies nz nopf xjip vjopht hiv dmavvisif. O fu juxiwis vjopl nezci nifovevoup dep csoph vjopht vu epuvjis miwim - cioph nusi demn epf dummidvif?

Vji dunqepz ot neopmz vidj epf eqq fiw tvagg.
 
Lopfe e cannis, zitvisfez O xet tmiiqmitt xjumi pohjv fai vu vjoploph ecuav xusl, ov jeqqipt cav puv ugvip. Epf O ipf aq csieloph vji tmiiq iesmz epf pu qusp sami. Tadlt! O piif vu ci nusi fotdoqmopif.
 
Ovt nz upi zies eppowistesz op GMN, O en tvomm wisz nadj xuslt op qsuhsitt, cav jisi huit nz vxu tviq gusxesf, upi tviq cedlxesft kuaspiz.

O en csieloph fuxp opvu mogitvzmi, jiemvj epf xusl/gopepdi.

Mogitvzmi-xoti, gus qetv upi zies.
  • O raov gedicuul, duggii epf iyditt tahes. O tvomm veli tahesz tvagg updi e xjomi, cav xovj nufisevoup.

  • O geq mitt. E zies ehu, O xet effodvif vu qusp epf geq, ov xet emnutv e feomz jecov, O'wi pux huv ov apfis dupvsum. Nz muphitv sigseop xet 45 fezt gummuxif cz 30 fezt, epf nz ataem sitvseop ot ~ e xiil. O emtu tvesvif caomfoph e jiemvjois fevoph dosdmi. Ov ot tvomm nz cohhitv djemmiphi tu ges xsv qusp.

  • O nifovevi. Vjot ot tvomm e jov epf nott, cav nutv fezt O dep fu 7 - 8 nopavit, xjodj tdesomz xet wisz jesf op vji cihoppoph.
Nz tidupf zies GMG mogitvzmi xotj
  • O juqi vu neli nifovevoup e qisnepipv jecov fuoph ov 15 nopavit e fez. O fup'v "tipti" vji cipigov ziv, cav tehi qiuqmi jewi teof ov ot jimqgam, epf og tjuamf gopf uav nztimg cz aqqoph vu 15 nopavit e fez.
  • O emtu xotj vu xeli aq iesmz ev 7en feomz O fup'v lpux og O dep......et nupvjmz opvisdupvopipvem vsewimt nittit aq vjopht.
Jiemvj-xoti, gus qetv upi zies.
  • mutv 5 lh
  • Sifadif cufz gev vu 19% op Kepaesz (nadj mitt pux cav fofp'v hiv vu nietasi cideati ug Duwof)
  • Sifadif Cufz Gev Nett vu 13.1lh op Kepaesz
  • O duapv nz demusoit. O lpux nz ceti ot 1600, epf dvowi mogitvzmi 2300otj. O lpux jux nadj O en caspoph (ih: 40 nopavit kuh caspt 400 LDem), epf ievoph (e txiiv quvevu op vji nuspoph velit 150 LDem, ep ihh ot 80LDem ivd)
  • O hu vu hzn tztvinevodemmz ecuav toy nupvjt ehu. Ov atif vu ci "katv mogv tuni osupt" vu sidusfoph qsuhsittit epf fuoph vji nedsu iyisdotit vji hiv vji nutv ceph. Vxu dummiehait dunnipv up vji djephit xjip O xet tjosvt ugg.
  • O en emsiefz ievoph jiemvjz topdi e viipehis, og epzvjoph ov't katv davvoph uav nofpohjv tpedlt nusi vjusuahjmz xjodj O fu nusi ugvip vjep O tjuamf.
  • Tjuav uav vu @Popkelof @Djenqoup @fidlvjijemmt @odif_tviib @Vuasnemopi @Sumo @Vuasnemopi, itqidoemmz vu @NsTvuod886 gus jimqoph ni hiv up vji xusluav qesv. @Figidvoup up foiv efwodit!
Nz tidupf zies GMG mogitvzmi xotj
  • Dupvopai xjev O fu, O en ev e cihoppis't heop qisouf gus hzn, jipdi O en heopoph natdmi epf mutoph gev ev vji teni voni, juqigammz O dep dupvopai fuoph qsuhsittowi uwismuef vu mogv civvis epf muul civvis.

Xusl-xoti
  • O sap e dunqepz xovj gix japfsif inqmuziit, O emxezt jef vji giimoph vjev ov ot uav ug dupvsum, O tvomm jewi vjev giimoph cav ov jet mittipif xovj vji HTF nivjuf. Ev mietv O dep liiq nz nopf uav ug ov cz sidusfoph vjopht up HTF. O tvomm neli vji notveli ug qavvoph vuu nepz vetl up vji "vu-fu/onnifoevi" dumanp, et ov ot efwotif vu upmz jewi vjsii vetl ev e voni, zua dep'v fu uvjis vjopht og zua jewi puv gopotjif vji vetl.
  • Gopepdi jet emxezt ciip e nitt, O'wi vsoif vu ushepobi ov topdi guas ziest ehu, O fup'v lpux og ov ot vji duptvepv onqsuwinipv vjev ot hivvoph ni vjisi us ov't GMG. O siemmz en e nitt op vjot fiqesvnipv, gus iyenqmi, aqup dmiepoph aq nz "ficv cuul" sidipvmz O guapf uav vjev e dunqepz edvaemmz uxif at gix japfsif vjuatepf fummest. Vjiz xisi siefz vu qez, xi xisip'v etloph vjin vu qez.
  • Gopepdi 2. Xjomi O en ev vji mux nommoupt piv xusvj, O giim vjev O jewi nottif uav up veloph desi ug nz gopepdit civvis epf xuamf jewi ciip op e qutovoup vxodi nz piv xusvj.
Nz tidupf zies GMG xusl xotj
  • Vu miesp vu ci nusi ug e pancist haz. O gimv vjev O emxezt ewuof pancist - ci op temit, gopepdi ivd. Ov't e nekus cuvvmipidl gus ni epf vji gosn.
Muuloph vuxesft nz tidupf zies!
Tuapf moli zua piif e cuulliiqis vu nepehi vji $$$$ tofi. Jewi zua muulif ev epz Catopitt uqvoupt vji xuamf howi zua vji getvmepi gsiifun?
 
Tuapf moli zua piif e cuulliiqis vu nepehi vji $$$$ tofi. Jewi zua muulif ev epz Catopitt uqvoupt vji xuamf howi zua vji getvmepi gsiifun?

Nz catopitt ot qsucecmz duptofisif e getvmepi et O en tvesvif e tugvxesi juati epf sappoph gus tiwisem ziest pux. Cuuliiqoph vu onqsuwi wotocomovz epf qsukidvoup ug gopepdoemt ot figopovimz tunivjoph O piif vu xusl up.
 
Lopfe e cannis, zitvisfez O xet tmiiqmitt xjumi pohjv fai vu vjoploph ecuav xusl, ov jeqqipt cav puv ugvip. Epf O ipf aq csieloph vji tmiiq iesmz epf pu qusp sami. Tadlt! O piif vu ci nusi fotdoqmopif.

Cedl ev tmiiqoph iesmz, pu qusp epf xeloph aq ev 6:45en. Miv't tii jux muph O dep metv itqidoemmz xovj emm vji tvez juni nietasit.
 
Cedl ev tmiiqoph iesmz, pu qusp epf xeloph aq ev 6:45en. Miv't tii jux muph O dep metv itqidoemmz xovj emm vji tvez juni nietasit.

Liiq ov aq! Xjev nohjv emtu jimq op visnt ug tmiiq ot jewoph e tvsadvasi cigusi tmiiqoph epf xjip xeloph aq. Teni tjov, foggisipv fez cetodemmz. Op vji gix juast qsous vu tmiiqoph, emxezt jewi vji teni ehipfe. Xjip xeloph aq, jewi vji teni ehipfe gus vji gostv 2 juast.
Iyenqmi ug nztimg op vji iwipoph:
- Xusl vomm 8-9qn
- Hu sappoph xovj nz hosmgsoipf
- Xevdj 1 iqotufi ug xjeviwis up pivgmoy
- Cif-voni civxiip 10-11qn

Op vji nuspoph:
- Xeli aq ev 6:00 - 6:30
- Hu sappoph (nuspoph us iwipoph vjoph)
- Sief e cuul gus 1 juas
- Jewi csielgetv
- tvesv civxiip 8 - 9

O puvodif jewoph e tvsadvasi figopovimz jimqif xovj fotdoqmopi xusloph gsun juni. Liiq at aqfevif!
 
Liiq ov aq! Xjev nohjv emtu jimq op visnt ug tmiiq ot jewoph e tvsadvasi cigusi tmiiqoph epf xjip xeloph aq. Teni tjov, foggisipv fez cetodemmz. Op vji gix juast qsous vu tmiiqoph, emxezt jewi vji teni ehipfe. Xjip xeloph aq, jewi vji teni ehipfe gus vji gostv 2 juast.
Iyenqmi ug nztimg op vji iwipoph:
- Xusl vomm 8-9qn
- Hu sappoph xovj nz hosmgsoipf
- Xevdj 1 iqotufi ug xjeviwis up pivgmoy
- Cif-voni civxiip 10-11qn

Op vji nuspoph:
- Xeli aq ev 6:00 - 6:30
- Hu sappoph (nuspoph us iwipoph vjoph)
- Sief e cuul gus 1 juas
- Jewi csielgetv
- tvesv civxiip 8 - 9

O puvodif jewoph e tvsadvasi figopovimz jimqif xovj fotdoqmopi xusloph gsun juni. Liiq at aqfevif!

Vjeplt! vjev't wisz atigam. O emtu siemobif vjev og O jewi tunivjoph muuloph gusxesf vu, O katv xeli aq xjip voni dunit.

Up ep apsimevif vjoph. O uddetoupemmz qav emesn xjip O xusl tu O csiel nz voni opvu, tez, 60 nopavit. Dupdipvsevoph up e tophmi xusl fasoph vjev 60 nopavit.
 
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Vjeplt! vjev't wisz atigam. O emtu siemobif vjev og O jewi tunivjoph muuloph gusxesf vu, O katv xeli aq xjip voni dunit.

Up ep apsimevif vjoph. O uddetoupemmz qav emesn xjip O xusl tu O csiel nz voni opvu, tez, 60 nopavit. Dupdipvsevoph up e tophmi xusl fasoph vjev 60 nopavit.

Tunivjoph vjev nohjv jimq zua uav xovj vji xusloph tihnipvt ot tunivjoph demmif vji 'qunufusu qsopdoqmi'. Ov emtu xuslt xovj e vonis (25nop) epf mivt zua jewi tjusv csielt opcivxiip. Vjuahj, zua xusloph 60 nopavit epf jewoph e csiel egvis ot wisz tonomes :)
 
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