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- Jul 11, 2017
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hello,
Am into my new first project and am really involved and busy most of the time ,always planning what to do and having practically zero free time to think or give a shit about anything else , but recently people around me (family mostly and few coworkers) starting making me feeling guilty for having my time full occupied and my mind busy and working 24/7, I think some like my close sister started feeling a gab comparing her life to mine, we are living together recently and after work she has nothing to do so she always asking me to go out and having fun as well as my co worker (I am an employee but planning to quit when my private work reaches a certain stage), most of the time i comply with her but sometimes i don't , and that's when she starts getting upset and blaming me for being selfish, happy and occupied in my own life not caring about others, my parents and brothers always asking me to have a break on weekends and not working at all , when they see me work even for an hour they start complaining, my close friend and coworker also pointing she's feeling lonely and needs girls out nights.
I don't know what should I do
If all these people really focused on their life they wouldn't have this emptiness asking others for compassion, companion and care .
their life and what they are doing with it is not my concern but if i can only get them to understand that am also having a life and am not an entertainment creature but someone who needs to do stuff and build her future .
please help me
what should i do ?
Am into my new first project and am really involved and busy most of the time ,always planning what to do and having practically zero free time to think or give a shit about anything else , but recently people around me (family mostly and few coworkers) starting making me feeling guilty for having my time full occupied and my mind busy and working 24/7, I think some like my close sister started feeling a gab comparing her life to mine, we are living together recently and after work she has nothing to do so she always asking me to go out and having fun as well as my co worker (I am an employee but planning to quit when my private work reaches a certain stage), most of the time i comply with her but sometimes i don't , and that's when she starts getting upset and blaming me for being selfish, happy and occupied in my own life not caring about others, my parents and brothers always asking me to have a break on weekends and not working at all , when they see me work even for an hour they start complaining, my close friend and coworker also pointing she's feeling lonely and needs girls out nights.
I don't know what should I do
If all these people really focused on their life they wouldn't have this emptiness asking others for compassion, companion and care .
their life and what they are doing with it is not my concern but if i can only get them to understand that am also having a life and am not an entertainment creature but someone who needs to do stuff and build her future .
please help me
what should i do ?
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