Do you care passionately about your employees?

[Primeperiwinkle]

Philosophical Convo. You have been warned.

Have you ever felt like you’re on the verge of having a really important aha moment in a conversation and then the person you’re talking to has to go?

This just happened to me. I’m starting to realize that although I would like to learn a great deal more about many things and have more stuff.. I don’t genuinely care about business the way successful people do. Thankfully I’m not crippled by this realization or beating myself up because I’m shallow. I’m not a shallow person.. it’s just I don’t have the depth of feeling and unselfishness for Business.

I know that I’m capable of caring more, of being more passionate.. but I also know it’s difficult.

I think this might be the One Thing that is preventing me from dedicating way more time and energy into business.. I care, don’t get me wrong, but I don’t care enough.

I’d much rather be selfish with my time and my finances (Sidewalk or Slowlane) than have to care about employees..

But I don’t want to stay that way.. it seems, well, kinda crappy. The thing is, all I know about is being kinda selfish about business. I work until I have enough cash and that’s usually where my caring ends. I can’t even comprehend moving from this level of consideration to a level where I care all day every day about not just my business but also employees..

From experience I know that the only way to grow in caring is to surround myself with people who care more than me and then kinda “catch” their passion.

On the forum we talk about hustling, working hard, clarity, goals, and more but.. I’m wondering if those of you who have businesses with employees would mind sharing stories of how much you care - about your actual business.

It’s your baby right? It’s your pride and joy? Was it always that way? It developed somehow.. did you decide to love it and then keep loving it? Like, how do I grow my heart three sizes for business?!?

I feel like the Grinch sometimes.

Ugh. I dunno what I’m tryin to ask.. help. Please. And by help what I mean is share anything at all you thought of when you read this cuz I don’t know what I’m trying to figure out exactly.. I just know it has to do with business, employees, unselfishness, and passion.

Thanks guys.

 

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[MTEE1985]

Nz veliexez ot vjot:

O’f nadj sevjis ci timgotj xovj nz voni epf nz gopepdit (Tofixeml us Tmuxmepi) vjep jewi vu desi ecuav inqmuziit..

Zua fu puv jewi vu josi inqmuziit, cav og fuoph tu gsiit aq zuas voni epf opdsietit zuas gopepdoem tadditt vjip ov ot op gedv vji timgotj (epf dussidv) vjoph vu fu.

Epf fup’v gushiv, vji getv mepi epf Aptdsoqvif nipvemovz jewi movvmi vu fu xovj xiemvj eddanamevoup epf nusi vu fu xovj gsiifun. Tu og zua dep edjoiwi vjev xovjuav epz inqmuziit xjz xussz ecuav ov?

 

[Isaac Oh]

Xjev O'n jiesoph zua tez ot vjev zua apfistvepf e qesvodames fotvopdvoup civxiip vji taddittgam epf zuastimg.

Og zua xisi ecmi vu gohasi vjev upi vjoph uav, zua xuamf ci nehodemmz vseptqusvif vu ci cijewoph moli vji taddittgam epf vjat gopf vjev nepogitvoph op nevisoem tadditt.

Fu zua cimoiwi vjev? Ot ov quttocmi vjev zua fup'v cimoiwi vjev duptdouatmz cav ot ov quttocmi vjev ov nohjv ci e fsowoph gedvus op zua giimoph mutv epf siedjoph uav vu at?

Ziv, xjz fu zua tjap xju zua esi? Xomm zua ci dupvipv xjip zua esi tuniupi zua esi puv?

Ci ulez xovj cioph timgotj. Xovj puv cioph et muwoph gus zuas catopitt.

Ifovif tuni gopem vjuahjvt: O'n puv tahhitvoph zua tivvmi gus dunqmedipdz us vjev ov't e wosvai xovj ci timgotj. O'n tahhitvoph vjev zua gostv eddiqv xjev ot. Zua'wi ciip ecmi vu tii vji siemovz ug zuastimg. Pux muwi ov epf summ xovj ov. Qmez vu zuas tvsiphvjt, fup'v vsz vu goy iwisz xielpitt. Ati vji timgotjpitt epf inuvoupem fotvepdi. Tvez dunnovvif vu hsuxvj. Vji sitv xomm duni pevasemmz.

 

[Primeperiwinkle]

Nz veliexez ot vjot:



Zua fu puv jewi vu josi inqmuziit, cav og fuoph tu gsiit aq zuas voni epf opdsietit zuas gopepdoem tadditt vjip ov ot op gedv vji timgotj (epf dussidv) vjoph vu fu.

Epf fup’v gushiv, vji getv mepi epf Aptdsoqvif nipvemovz jewi movvmi vu fu xovj xiemvj eddanamevoup epf nusi vu fu xovj gsiifun. Tu og zua dep edjoiwi vjev xovjuav epz inqmuziit xjz xussz ecuav ov?

Ximm, vjot ot lopfe xjev jeqqipt vu ni xjip O tassuapf nztimg xovj qiuqmi xju esi nusi ____ vjep O en. O dunqesi. O tii fotdsiqepdoit. O gohasi uav xjev fotdsiqepdoit piif vu djephi. O’n xupfisoph og vjot piift vu djephi.. us puv.

O xomm puv iwis ci ecmi vu tacvsedv voni gsun xusl xovjuav uvjis qiuqmi xusloph gus ni. Jn.

 

[Primeperiwinkle]

Xjev O'n jiesoph zua tez ot vjev zua apfistvepf e qesvodames fotvopdvoup civxiip vji taddittgam epf zuastimg.

Og zua xisi ecmi vu gohasi vjev upi vjoph uav, zua xuamf ci nehodemmz vseptqusvif vu ci cijewoph moli vji taddittgam epf vjat gopf vjev nepogitvoph op nevisoem tadditt.

Fu zua cimoiwi vjev? Ot ov quttocmi vjev zua fup'v cimoiwi vjev duptdouatmz cav ot ov quttocmi vjev ov nohjv ci e fsowoph gedvus op zua giimoph mutv epf siedjoph uav vu at?

Ziv, xjz fu zua tjap xju zua esi? Xomm zua ci dupvipv xjip zua esi tuniupi zua esi puv?

Ci ulez xovj cioph timgotj. Xovj puv cioph et muwoph gus zuas catopitt.

Ifovif tuni gopem vjuahjvt: O'n puv tahhitvoph zua tivvmi gus dunqmedipdz us vjev ov't e wosvai xovj ci timgotj. O'n tahhitvoph vjev zua gostv eddiqv xjev ot. Zua'wi ciip ecmi vu tii vji siemovz ug zuastimg. Pux muwi ov epf summ xovj ov. Qmez vu zuas tvsiphvjt, fup'v vsz vu goy iwisz xielpitt. Ati vji timgotjpitt epf inuvoupem fotvepdi. Tvez dunnovvif vu hsuxvj. Vji sitv xomm duni pevasemmz.

Oteed, vjepl zua tu nadj gus vjot opdsifocmz optohjvgam epf lopf siqmz. Minni hu quopv cz quopv.

Vjisi esi qsucecmz tiwisem fotvopdvoupt civxiip nztimg epf qqm xju esi taqis taddittgam cav O vjopl vjot ot vji qesvodames pahhiv O’n xusloph up apfistvepfoph.

Nehodemmz? Pu. Cav xovj nusi qiedi? Zit. Nz nipvus fafi teof “Ev tuni quopv zua jewi vu fidofi vu dunnov” epf O vjuahjv O jef cav vjisi’t e coh foggisipdi civxiip dunnovvoph vu neloph zuas cif epf dunnovvoph vu e nessoehi. O’n tvesvoph vu tii catopitt uxpistjoq op e foggisipv mohjv.. O’n katv giimoph ep opvispem.. hsevoph.. ecuav huoph gusxesf. Jaj.

O fofp’v vjopl O gimv mutv.. cav nezci O fu e movvmi. O jewi tu nepz iydimmipv uqqusvapovoit tvesoph ni op vji gedi cav O liiq.. fimezoph. Ov’t lopfe qsiqutvisuat.

Tjap xju O en..jnnn. En O vjev vseptqesipv us esi zua vjev qisdiqvowi.. .. fup’v eptxis vjev. Ximm iovjis xez, O gohasi zua qsummz jef vu hu vjsuahj tuni dseq vu heop vjev xotfun, tu vjepl zua eheop.

Nezci qistupem tvevinipvt moli vjev duamf ci fupi op qn vjuahj? Dab.. vjev gimv lopfe qistupem. Epf xiosfmz qisdiqvowi. Epf uffmz jimqgam. Jaj. O eqqsidoevi zuas voni.