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Congrats man for trying.
Fair enough. You couldn't know that. If she wasn't seeing someone then maybe she would accept. But that doesn't matter. Remember important thing - that it's a numbers game too.
Ok, that didn't sound well but it's just part of the learning process, next time you'll know better. We've all said something that came off weird at one point or another
That alone is badass. And being a successful businessman is badass.
This is a bit too much to say to a girl you've just met. What would have been enough is:
Reason for this is subtle communication that happens besides the logical facts you said to her. You see, many times guys will feel they're not worthy of a girls attention by themselves, so they will mention their businesses, achievements and success of all kinds.
I know you probably didn't mean it like that, but that's how it comes off, especially as girls hear things like that all the time. Guys trying to impress them with this and that, throwing all their achievements at her feet without even being asked to do so.
A man should remain a bit mysterious. Always. Let her wonder who you are. Let her find out, little by little. And never become a read book.
That's it man! You will get better at it. You will rock at this just like you rock at other areas of life. You are an achiever, and this is simple another area of life that you just haven't tackled yet.
Feel free to PM me for any advice or questions.
"oh, I'm seeing someone already"
Fair enough. You couldn't know that. If she wasn't seeing someone then maybe she would accept. But that doesn't matter. Remember important thing - that it's a numbers game too.
and I was mid-sentence then said something like "... want to do something just casual.."
Ok, that didn't sound well but it's just part of the learning process, next time you'll know better. We've all said something that came off weird at one point or another
I've raced motocross
That alone is badass. And being a successful businessman is badass.
"Yeah... I've been pretty busy with my other business, I have a product I'm launching soon so I've been stressed and working all day and night"
This is a bit too much to say to a girl you've just met. What would have been enough is:
"Yeah... I've been pretty busy
Reason for this is subtle communication that happens besides the logical facts you said to her. You see, many times guys will feel they're not worthy of a girls attention by themselves, so they will mention their businesses, achievements and success of all kinds.
I know you probably didn't mean it like that, but that's how it comes off, especially as girls hear things like that all the time. Guys trying to impress them with this and that, throwing all their achievements at her feet without even being asked to do so.
A man should remain a bit mysterious. Always. Let her wonder who you are. Let her find out, little by little. And never become a read book.
Now that I have the first time experience and am ready to do this again! I know I need to not think about the situation/task at hand and relax A LOT more and things will go better.
That's it man! You will get better at it. You will rock at this just like you rock at other areas of life. You are an achiever, and this is simple another area of life that you just haven't tackled yet.
Feel free to PM me for any advice or questions.
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